Chapter 714
Don't Blame Me
Chapter 714 Don't Blame Me
"Do you think it's possible?" Ming Youyin asked her back: "Although that woman is the third child that everyone despises, she is Xu Yanhuan's biological mother. Do you think Xu Yanhuan may sever ties with his biological mother for you? Is it? If he really cut off his relationship with his biological mother who raised him just because he wanted to marry you, would you still dare to marry him?"
So, she thinks it's a dead end.
If Xu Yanhuan did not sever ties with his biological mother, Chu Shuangxiao's parents would not let Chu Shuangxiao marry Xu Yanhuan.
But if Xu Yanhuan could ruthlessly sever ties with his biological mother in order to marry Chu Shuangxiao, then Xu Yanhuan would no longer be the Xu Yanhuan worthy of Chu Shuangxiao's liking.
Chu Shuangxiao also figured this out, her face turned pale, "So... so Yan Huan and I can't be together?"
Ming Youyin looked at him sympathetically, "Your parents reacted so fiercely, it shows how much they look down on the third child and the illegitimate child, now either you will sever ties with your parents for Xu Yanhuan, or Xu Yanhuan sever ties with his parents for you, Either you two break up, I really can't think of a third way."
Chu Shuangxiao said with difficulty: "Then how about I beg them? They love me the most...I'll tell them well..."
"Xiaoxiao," Ming Youyin held her hand and said softly, "You have to understand that the more famous your family is like ours, the more pressure your parents will bear. They are not only your parents, they You are still a member of the family. If they agree to your marriage, Xu Yanhuan's mother will be their in-laws. I believe you know your parents better than anyone else. You can imagine them sitting on an equal footing with a third child, talking peacefully A picture of things?"
"That...that's impossible..." Chu Shuangxiao closed her eyes.
She didn't want to admit it, but she had to.
Ming Youyin was right.
A family like her values reputation the most.
Her parents would not sit on an equal footing with a third child and admit that the other party was their in-laws.
They feel ashamed, ridiculed by their relatives and friends, and discredit the family.
"Then...then what should I do?" Chu Shuangxiao shed tears again, "I really like Yan Huan, I don't want to lose him, I love him, I can't leave him..."
Ming Youyin thought for a while, "Maybe you can talk to Xu Yanhuan, if you marry him, he can continue to honor his mother, but your family will not admit that his mother is the in-law of the Chu family, and neither will you. His mother is your mother-in-law, and your children in the future will not admit that there is such a grandma, if he can do this, I think there is still a possibility for the two of you."
"K-Ke Yanhuan will agree?" Chu Shuangxiao clenched her hands nervously.
"If he doesn't agree, then you can break up with him," Ming Youyin said frankly: "Otherwise, you should be prepared to keep arguing with your parents until they are persuaded by you, or you quarrel. Until they cut ties with you."
"Does it have to be like this?" Chu Shuangxiao bit her lips: "Yinyin, didn't your husband's family refuse to admit you before? Aren't they happily preparing for your wedding now? As long as I If you work harder with Yan Huan, maybe... maybe there will be a better solution..."
"That's right," Ming Youyin said, "but I don't have flaws like Xu Yanhuan's! Brother Zhan's grandfather refused to accept me before, not because I wasn't good enough, or because I had something to criticize. Because he fell in love with someone else for Brother Zhan."
"Also, Brother Zhan's grandfather has changed his attitude towards me 360 degrees now because he knows that my biological parents are masters of traditional Chinese painting and respectable people. From this we can see how much family background means to these old people. important."
"Of course, I'm not saying that Brother Zhan's grandfather is a person who dislikes the poor and loves the rich, and is a follower of power. He just particularly respects people with culture and character. It just so happens that my parents happen to be the kind of people he admires the most, so Aiwujiwu, he accepted me by the way."
"In the same way, your parents especially hate Xiao San'er, women who shamelessly destroy other families, so they also hate Xu Yanhuan, it's human nature."
Chu Shuangxiao stared at a certain point in a daze.
"I think my suggestion just now is quite good. I suggest you think about it," Ming Youyin continued, "I'm not afraid of offending you. Frankly speaking, I also hate Xiaosaner, especially! I know other people have wives and children. How about shamelessly picking it up and destroying other people's families, if my children let me marry this kind of woman in the future, I will definitely beat them out without saying a word."
Chu Shuangxiao shook her head: "Yinyin, don't say that, you won't offend me, I hate Xiaosan'er too, and I despise Yan Huan's mother, but Yan Huan is innocent, what I like is Yan Huan..."
Ming Youyin nodded, "That's why I asked you to think about my suggestion just now, Xu Yanhuan should be filial to his mother and will continue to be filial to his mother in the future. You will not interfere, but it has nothing to do with your side and his mother's side, like A person like Xu Yanhuan's mother doesn't deserve to be recognized and respected by others at all. Her daughter-in-law and grandchildren don't recognize her, which is the retribution she deserves. Whether you can be with Xu Yanhuan depends on what Xu Yanhuan can do for you Which step is it?"
After finishing speaking, there was a moment of silence, Ming Youyin smiled and pressed the center of her eyebrows, "Xiaoxiao, I just drank alcohol, I may be agitated, and what I said was a little extreme, you are an adult, I believe you have your own Thoughts, what I said, is just a suggestion for you. How to make up your mind depends on yourself, Xiaoxiao, you still have to be responsible for yourself in your life in the end, you understand what I mean ?”
"I understand," Chu Shuangxiao held her hand, "Thank you, Yinyin, I know, I still have to make up my own mind on what to do in the end, what you said is just to give me advice, I know that no matter what you say Everything is for my own good, whether it is suitable or not, I am grateful to you."
"Then I'm relieved," Ming Youyin smiled brightly, "I'm worried that I just drank, and what I said was a little harsh, and it might not sound good. Just don't blame me."
"How can I blame you?" Chu Shuangxiao said, "I'm not someone who doesn't know good and bad. Only true friends will tell me the truth. If it's a false friend, they must only say what I like to hear. I know good and bad. of."
"That's fine," Ming Youyin said with a smile: "Anyway, don't quarrel with your parents, they are all for your own good, and I know you are anxious, but quarreling is the worst result, they are anxious that you don't Hurry up, talk to them well and coax them, the more obedient you are, the less they will think about Xu Yanhuan."
Chu Shuangxiao nodded: "I understand Yinyin."
She stood up, "It's getting late, I should go back, I'll go home and apologize to my parents."
"Well," Ming Youyin asked, "is the bodyguard outside?"
Chu Shuangxiao nodded: "Yes."
"Then I'll take you out."
Ming Youyin sent Chu Shuangxiao out.
Chu Shuangxiao chatted with her reluctantly before getting in the car and leaving.
She watched Chu Shuangxiao's car go far away, and when she turned her head, she saw Zhan Yunting standing not far behind her.
"Brother Zhan!" She laughed, ran a few steps, threw herself into Zhan Yunting's arms, and smiled coquettishly, "Are you here to pick me up?"
(End of this chapter)
"Do you think it's possible?" Ming Youyin asked her back: "Although that woman is the third child that everyone despises, she is Xu Yanhuan's biological mother. Do you think Xu Yanhuan may sever ties with his biological mother for you? Is it? If he really cut off his relationship with his biological mother who raised him just because he wanted to marry you, would you still dare to marry him?"
So, she thinks it's a dead end.
If Xu Yanhuan did not sever ties with his biological mother, Chu Shuangxiao's parents would not let Chu Shuangxiao marry Xu Yanhuan.
But if Xu Yanhuan could ruthlessly sever ties with his biological mother in order to marry Chu Shuangxiao, then Xu Yanhuan would no longer be the Xu Yanhuan worthy of Chu Shuangxiao's liking.
Chu Shuangxiao also figured this out, her face turned pale, "So... so Yan Huan and I can't be together?"
Ming Youyin looked at him sympathetically, "Your parents reacted so fiercely, it shows how much they look down on the third child and the illegitimate child, now either you will sever ties with your parents for Xu Yanhuan, or Xu Yanhuan sever ties with his parents for you, Either you two break up, I really can't think of a third way."
Chu Shuangxiao said with difficulty: "Then how about I beg them? They love me the most...I'll tell them well..."
"Xiaoxiao," Ming Youyin held her hand and said softly, "You have to understand that the more famous your family is like ours, the more pressure your parents will bear. They are not only your parents, they You are still a member of the family. If they agree to your marriage, Xu Yanhuan's mother will be their in-laws. I believe you know your parents better than anyone else. You can imagine them sitting on an equal footing with a third child, talking peacefully A picture of things?"
"That...that's impossible..." Chu Shuangxiao closed her eyes.
She didn't want to admit it, but she had to.
Ming Youyin was right.
A family like her values reputation the most.
Her parents would not sit on an equal footing with a third child and admit that the other party was their in-laws.
They feel ashamed, ridiculed by their relatives and friends, and discredit the family.
"Then...then what should I do?" Chu Shuangxiao shed tears again, "I really like Yan Huan, I don't want to lose him, I love him, I can't leave him..."
Ming Youyin thought for a while, "Maybe you can talk to Xu Yanhuan, if you marry him, he can continue to honor his mother, but your family will not admit that his mother is the in-law of the Chu family, and neither will you. His mother is your mother-in-law, and your children in the future will not admit that there is such a grandma, if he can do this, I think there is still a possibility for the two of you."
"K-Ke Yanhuan will agree?" Chu Shuangxiao clenched her hands nervously.
"If he doesn't agree, then you can break up with him," Ming Youyin said frankly: "Otherwise, you should be prepared to keep arguing with your parents until they are persuaded by you, or you quarrel. Until they cut ties with you."
"Does it have to be like this?" Chu Shuangxiao bit her lips: "Yinyin, didn't your husband's family refuse to admit you before? Aren't they happily preparing for your wedding now? As long as I If you work harder with Yan Huan, maybe... maybe there will be a better solution..."
"That's right," Ming Youyin said, "but I don't have flaws like Xu Yanhuan's! Brother Zhan's grandfather refused to accept me before, not because I wasn't good enough, or because I had something to criticize. Because he fell in love with someone else for Brother Zhan."
"Also, Brother Zhan's grandfather has changed his attitude towards me 360 degrees now because he knows that my biological parents are masters of traditional Chinese painting and respectable people. From this we can see how much family background means to these old people. important."
"Of course, I'm not saying that Brother Zhan's grandfather is a person who dislikes the poor and loves the rich, and is a follower of power. He just particularly respects people with culture and character. It just so happens that my parents happen to be the kind of people he admires the most, so Aiwujiwu, he accepted me by the way."
"In the same way, your parents especially hate Xiao San'er, women who shamelessly destroy other families, so they also hate Xu Yanhuan, it's human nature."
Chu Shuangxiao stared at a certain point in a daze.
"I think my suggestion just now is quite good. I suggest you think about it," Ming Youyin continued, "I'm not afraid of offending you. Frankly speaking, I also hate Xiaosaner, especially! I know other people have wives and children. How about shamelessly picking it up and destroying other people's families, if my children let me marry this kind of woman in the future, I will definitely beat them out without saying a word."
Chu Shuangxiao shook her head: "Yinyin, don't say that, you won't offend me, I hate Xiaosan'er too, and I despise Yan Huan's mother, but Yan Huan is innocent, what I like is Yan Huan..."
Ming Youyin nodded, "That's why I asked you to think about my suggestion just now, Xu Yanhuan should be filial to his mother and will continue to be filial to his mother in the future. You will not interfere, but it has nothing to do with your side and his mother's side, like A person like Xu Yanhuan's mother doesn't deserve to be recognized and respected by others at all. Her daughter-in-law and grandchildren don't recognize her, which is the retribution she deserves. Whether you can be with Xu Yanhuan depends on what Xu Yanhuan can do for you Which step is it?"
After finishing speaking, there was a moment of silence, Ming Youyin smiled and pressed the center of her eyebrows, "Xiaoxiao, I just drank alcohol, I may be agitated, and what I said was a little extreme, you are an adult, I believe you have your own Thoughts, what I said, is just a suggestion for you. How to make up your mind depends on yourself, Xiaoxiao, you still have to be responsible for yourself in your life in the end, you understand what I mean ?”
"I understand," Chu Shuangxiao held her hand, "Thank you, Yinyin, I know, I still have to make up my own mind on what to do in the end, what you said is just to give me advice, I know that no matter what you say Everything is for my own good, whether it is suitable or not, I am grateful to you."
"Then I'm relieved," Ming Youyin smiled brightly, "I'm worried that I just drank, and what I said was a little harsh, and it might not sound good. Just don't blame me."
"How can I blame you?" Chu Shuangxiao said, "I'm not someone who doesn't know good and bad. Only true friends will tell me the truth. If it's a false friend, they must only say what I like to hear. I know good and bad. of."
"That's fine," Ming Youyin said with a smile: "Anyway, don't quarrel with your parents, they are all for your own good, and I know you are anxious, but quarreling is the worst result, they are anxious that you don't Hurry up, talk to them well and coax them, the more obedient you are, the less they will think about Xu Yanhuan."
Chu Shuangxiao nodded: "I understand Yinyin."
She stood up, "It's getting late, I should go back, I'll go home and apologize to my parents."
"Well," Ming Youyin asked, "is the bodyguard outside?"
Chu Shuangxiao nodded: "Yes."
"Then I'll take you out."
Ming Youyin sent Chu Shuangxiao out.
Chu Shuangxiao chatted with her reluctantly before getting in the car and leaving.
She watched Chu Shuangxiao's car go far away, and when she turned her head, she saw Zhan Yunting standing not far behind her.
"Brother Zhan!" She laughed, ran a few steps, threw herself into Zhan Yunting's arms, and smiled coquettishly, "Are you here to pick me up?"
(End of this chapter)