Chapter 224
Chapter 224
Chapter 224
Chapter 130 (2)
Sirut took two steps forward, stepped forward and whispered, "What's wrong with you? How old is the third elder brother? What can he understand? Are you angry with him? The same child, right? The ones born to him were forgiving, and they turned upside down on their own. Being careful scared him."
In the outside room, the light is better, so Xiaoman wrung out a damp towel.Shujia wiped her face, and slowly woke up.Fatty, this is probably the eldest son and eldest daughter depression syndrome. He was happy to have a younger brother and younger sister at first, but later he found that the attention on himself was divided, and he had an illusion of 'I was abandoned'.Especially the little fat man, who was born to be loved by thousands of people, it is easier to get distracted.
I didn't expect this ballast!It almost added a psychological shadow to him just now!Shujia was very ashamed: what happened to me?so emotional?
Sighing, he sat down on the main seat.Seeing that the little fat man has been led forward by the nanny, he is a bit slow, and there is still grievance in his steps.Period Ai Ai's.
Shujia stretched out her arms: "Come, come to Erniang."
The little fat man looked at Shujia, then rushed forward, quickly climbed onto the seat, and threw himself into Shujia's arms: "Er Niang~" still had a nasal sound.
Shujia reached out and patted the little fat man's back: "Hey, you're sinking again."
"Hmph!" As if to vent her anger, she buried her small face in Erniang's chest and rubbed back and forth.
"Isn't that all right?" Sirut said with a smile.
"Come on, mother-in-law, take a look, does your face hurt?"
"Um~um"
The mother and son wanted to see each other, but refused to give it to the other. They chased and hid, and the little fat man was coaxed over.He stopped carrying it hard, and leaned into his mother's arms, stretching out his arms to hug his own mother: "My mother, my face hurts a little."
"Come on, let me take a look." There was a thin red mark that couldn't be seen without looking closely, but it didn't mean it didn't hurt.Someone with suspected postpartum blues(?) is back to normal and starting to feel bad.Hurrah to the son.
The little fat man was happy: "Er Niang."
"Ah."
"My mother."
"Yeah." He shook his arms gently.The little fat man laughed so hard that he started: "Emiang still loves me. Then I won't be angry with my brother, just pretend he didn't hit me."
Huh?Why don't you shake anymore?It was so comfortable just now, the little fat man turned his neck, just in time to see his mother said to him expressionlessly: "Who told you that my mother doesn't love you anymore? Also, when you were his age, you used to smoke You, Ama. You, Ama, must also think that you never beat him."
"Gah?" The little fat man trembled.
At this time, Ama, who was mentioned by his mother, came.
"What's the matter? It's so lively? Why did you come out? Hongdan is here too? Where's your brother? Get up. Help the old lady to rest, I'm so tired." Yinfeng's thinking jump can be seen.A group of greeters stood up, Sirut said hello to the prince, and left tactfully, leaving space for the family of four.Before leaving, he gave his daughter a wink.
"Greetings to Ama," the little fat man slid to the ground and muttered, "My brother is sleeping." He raised his head and peeked pitifully, Ama, you must have forgotten, right?Right?
"I'm going to see him, eh? What's the matter with you? Don't you know Ama?" What a strange look.
The little fat man lowered his head guiltily.
But Shujia smiled: "It's just right, it's time for Er Niang to let me relax, and I have to go back and rest," she said in a dissatisfied tone, "Let's go in and have a look together. There is something I have to do first. It's done, our third elder brother is making a joke today."
"Why?" He came up to support his wife's arm, let his son hold his clothes, and the three of them walked in together, not forgetting to ask, "Be careful where you step, there is a threshold."
"Ask him." He glanced at the little fat man, and the little fat man lowered his head. "He has been wronged today. He actually said 'Emiang still loves me', why don't I love you anymore? Little heartless."
When he got to the inside while talking, Yinreng looked into the car, his face became serious: "What's wrong with Si elder brother's face?"
The little fat man thought, could it be that I poked it just now?I really want to cry, but I hold back, no, he is a man now, he has to hold on.
Shujia wanted to bend down to hug him, but Yuniu hurriedly supported her, and then exchanged winks with Fang, who came up to hug Hongdan up.Only then did Shujia explain in a long and short way: "Hongdan wanted to give a lecture to his younger brother, so he told him to get up. His younger brother was asleep, so he ignored him, and even pulled him in the face. I glared at him, and he said I only love his younger brother, and I don't love him anymore." I stretched out my hand to pinch the little fat man's face, "How can you think so."
Yinfeng laughed, touched the top of Hongdan's head, and stroked it lightly: "You, you, relax a little bit, you are the son of Ama Erniang, how can you not love you? They all hurt the same!" The fat man was a little embarrassed and moved: "Ama~" He even acted coquettishly.Yinfeng took him and hugged him: "It's sinking again."
"Er Niang also said that I was sinking. I'm not a pig. He's more like it. He's still sleeping." The kid looked down at his younger brother, and he had deeply inherited the family's vindictive nature.Struggling to go down again, Yinreng took advantage of the opportunity to lower the little fat man, and saw him lying on the side of Youche, reaching out to touch Erpang's face: "Huh, it doesn't hurt anymore, brother didn't do it on purpose, does it hurt? I will treat you from now on." it is good."
Shujia said: "It's all right now, you, Ama, just said a word, and you turned around, but it's why you have been struggling with me for so long."
Yinfeng dragged the little fat man's waist with one hand, and was about to reach out with the other hand to touch the little fat man together: "That's right, my son kisses me! Are you envious? If you are envious, I will have a daughter and kiss you."
Shujia spat at him lightly: "I'm talking nonsense again in front of my son."
Yinfeng made a heck and hey, and formed a rogue father-son duo with Hongdan, continuing to harass the second fat kid.
Er is chubby and feels itchy on his face. Has the annoying mosquito come again?Why don't you hum instead of scratching?Another slap!Startled, Yinreng lifted Xiaopang up, lay down past the sneak attack, and stretched out his hand to hold Erpang's murderous paw.
"Good boy! Slow down, didn't even brother and Ama smoke all the time?"
The little fat man was taken aback. He almost cried out in fright. He didn’t have time to reflect his emotions. He just heard this sentence. It’s over. Are you taking revenge?Clamped by a strong arm, there is no danger of falling to the ground, but... it is very uncomfortable!
Shujia stepped forward to pick up the little fat man, and the people in the room were startled. They moved much faster than the mothers, and quickly picked up the little fat man and put them on the ground.
A family of three, almost all of them were sweating and smiling at each other.The second fat man who caused the accident, continue zzzzz~zhong.
The matter is not over yet, and Shujia has to give her son follow-up education.The experience and psychology of children in their childhood will directly affect their development in adulthood.
You can't ignore the little fat man's basic necessities of life, get along with him more and talk to him more.There are many examples among them: "Look at your elder brother and second brother, isn't it the same? Your younger brother lives with Er Niang now, and you also lay here when you were so young..."
The little fat man finally understands, it's not that his grandma and others don't love him anymore, nor do they love his little brother more, but it's because he's grown up and his requirements are different.Look at his elder brother and second brother, who have already gone to the study, and he is still being enlightened by his parents.When I am old, I will also go to the study.When he was a child, he was a little bit more horizontal than his younger brother, and he used to smoke Ama who harassed him.He also lived with Er Niang when he was a child, and the younger brother would have his own room when he was older.
Yinfeng took this as a joke: "Ah, ah, my son is jealous of his brother."
The young mother breathed a sigh of relief.
After having more sons, how to deal with the relationship between sons and make them develop harmoniously is a big question.The mental health of children is also important.
Children are not static, you can not control every process of his growth, especially psychological.He is born as an independent individual and will be affected by various factors, so he must pay attention to the changes of the child at will.You can't be careless and use one method all the time, that is actually a kind of laziness and indifference.
The princess summed it up like this.
Damn it!It's not easy being someone's mother!So, mothers are great.Hey, my mother-in-law is also getting older, so prepare a cane for her tomorrow?Well, it's too eye-catching in the palace, so let the two maids help her... Let her take a good rest after confinement.
The crown princess is out of confinement, which means that the second elder brother of Yuqing Palace is full moon, and the weather has also entered October.The second cut child's full moon wine was arranged according to his brother's example.The night before, Yinfeng poked the sleeping fat face of his youngest son, and said to Shujia regretfully: "Unfortunately, Khan Ama missed this time again. Fortunately, Khan Ama must have Go back, the old man will definitely come to the Hundred Days Banquet."
Shujia said: "The whole family lives in the same place, and they don't come twice this time. It's the same if Khan Ama can catch up with the Hundred Days Banquet." They can't get there already, so why bother talking about it? "However, the son's name"
"I have already asked Khan Ama for instructions. Khan Ama wants to give him a name in a hundred days after he comes back."
"They have handed over the list, let's count it up again to see if anyone has been missed." Shujia pointed to the list on the table.
The Hundred Days Banquet did not have a very large scope. Although it was held according to Hongdan's example, the importance of the two brothers was still slightly different.Most of the people present were the female family members of the palace, and there were also people from the clan who stayed behind among the ministers, so they could be regarded as their relatives.Because of illness, Prince Yu Fuquan and Prince Gong Changning failed because of favor, they were both in Beijing, and they came here together at this time.
Among the women's relatives, some of the concubines went with them, such as Concubine Yi, whose family is in Shengjing, was also taken this time.According to Yinreng's words, Kangxi returned to Shengjing and still lived in Yifei's mother's house, this is the second time.
Those who stayed in Beijing, such as Concubine Tong, Concubine De, Concubine Hui, Concubine Rong, etc., said they would come, so Zhu Fujin would certainly come.
Yinfeng looked at it for a while, and didn't feel that there was anything missing: "Let's do it like this."
"Okay. This time their courtesy is not light."
Before the person arrives, the gift comes first, and the gifts are all generous and well-behaved gifts.The heavy gold locks are full of weight, yellow and bright bracelets, anklets, and all kinds of gold and silver lockets.These are all based on the first house, and under the gift of the main seat are the things of the nobles and other people who live with the dependents, and these will be second-class.
After reading it, Shujia asked Zhao Guoshi and Qing Jin to put the items in storage against the list.Put valuables in one place and save them as his son's small treasury.
The sisters-in-law are not light on their moves, each family has children, even if it is for the sake of reciprocity and good looks, they are quick to act.The courtiers and clan below all gave presents, including Ruyi and other things, among which a red sandalwood Ruyi gifted by the Yaerjiang'a couple was exquisitely carved, inlaid with three pieces of beautiful jade, shining brightly.
Among the gifts from the Shi family, there were a few needles and threads.As aunts, both the Wendu family and the Jueluo family offered needlework.
To Shujia's surprise, Yinfeng is now very concerned about these small things, and commented on the people on the list: "Yarjiang is a sensible person, you treat him well, and he treats you well... "Tsk tsk, younger brother Yaerjiang promised to the elder brother of the prince that he will be able to insert people into Yinti's palace.
Doing the same thing for the second time will inevitably lose the fresh excitement of the first time, and it is the same this time.When the concubines came back this time, their hearts were not as excited as in previous years.I have seen the children in the same way, and praised them once.After taking their seats, Zhu Fujin also arrived.
During Sanfujin's confinement earlier, the Crown Princess gave her a generous gift, and she returned it generously.At this time, they met each other, and they greeted each other's son: "It looks fatter than the one in our family."
"I don't believe that your child will be born badly. I can walk around from now on. I must see it tomorrow."
At the full moon banquet, the women talked about the children's scriptures, and the eight blessings sitting in the middle were extremely difficult.Within a year, they are all called newlyweds, and it's still early for the eight blessings.However, in the royal family, the situation has changed again.Not only the people who watched were anxious, but even themselves became anxious.
Ba Fujin was so anxious for something, and he still had a bright smile on his face: "Oh, you are so beautiful, she looks like the second sister-in-law."
San Fujin said: "My son looks like Er Niang, that's a lucky appearance."
"I've heard that saying too..."
twitter.No one saw Ba Fujin's depression.
The full moon banquet didn't last long, the guests dispersed, and the chief eunuch came out to direct people to pack things.It's time for Sirut to go home too.Shujia brought her a few big bags back, ranging from medicinal materials to forging materials.I really feel that it is not easy for Sirut. All mothers in the world worry about it, and mothers with more than two children have to work harder.
Sirut was really reluctant to part with her, and she had to tell her daughter before leaving: "Sit still and don't get angry easily. You don't need to move anymore when you are at this level. To the elder brother and the second elder brother It's better, especially to take care of our third elder brother... You don't need to think about it at home, remember to remember."
(End of this chapter)
Chapter 130 (2)
Sirut took two steps forward, stepped forward and whispered, "What's wrong with you? How old is the third elder brother? What can he understand? Are you angry with him? The same child, right? The ones born to him were forgiving, and they turned upside down on their own. Being careful scared him."
In the outside room, the light is better, so Xiaoman wrung out a damp towel.Shujia wiped her face, and slowly woke up.Fatty, this is probably the eldest son and eldest daughter depression syndrome. He was happy to have a younger brother and younger sister at first, but later he found that the attention on himself was divided, and he had an illusion of 'I was abandoned'.Especially the little fat man, who was born to be loved by thousands of people, it is easier to get distracted.
I didn't expect this ballast!It almost added a psychological shadow to him just now!Shujia was very ashamed: what happened to me?so emotional?
Sighing, he sat down on the main seat.Seeing that the little fat man has been led forward by the nanny, he is a bit slow, and there is still grievance in his steps.Period Ai Ai's.
Shujia stretched out her arms: "Come, come to Erniang."
The little fat man looked at Shujia, then rushed forward, quickly climbed onto the seat, and threw himself into Shujia's arms: "Er Niang~" still had a nasal sound.
Shujia reached out and patted the little fat man's back: "Hey, you're sinking again."
"Hmph!" As if to vent her anger, she buried her small face in Erniang's chest and rubbed back and forth.
"Isn't that all right?" Sirut said with a smile.
"Come on, mother-in-law, take a look, does your face hurt?"
"Um~um"
The mother and son wanted to see each other, but refused to give it to the other. They chased and hid, and the little fat man was coaxed over.He stopped carrying it hard, and leaned into his mother's arms, stretching out his arms to hug his own mother: "My mother, my face hurts a little."
"Come on, let me take a look." There was a thin red mark that couldn't be seen without looking closely, but it didn't mean it didn't hurt.Someone with suspected postpartum blues(?) is back to normal and starting to feel bad.Hurrah to the son.
The little fat man was happy: "Er Niang."
"Ah."
"My mother."
"Yeah." He shook his arms gently.The little fat man laughed so hard that he started: "Emiang still loves me. Then I won't be angry with my brother, just pretend he didn't hit me."
Huh?Why don't you shake anymore?It was so comfortable just now, the little fat man turned his neck, just in time to see his mother said to him expressionlessly: "Who told you that my mother doesn't love you anymore? Also, when you were his age, you used to smoke You, Ama. You, Ama, must also think that you never beat him."
"Gah?" The little fat man trembled.
At this time, Ama, who was mentioned by his mother, came.
"What's the matter? It's so lively? Why did you come out? Hongdan is here too? Where's your brother? Get up. Help the old lady to rest, I'm so tired." Yinfeng's thinking jump can be seen.A group of greeters stood up, Sirut said hello to the prince, and left tactfully, leaving space for the family of four.Before leaving, he gave his daughter a wink.
"Greetings to Ama," the little fat man slid to the ground and muttered, "My brother is sleeping." He raised his head and peeked pitifully, Ama, you must have forgotten, right?Right?
"I'm going to see him, eh? What's the matter with you? Don't you know Ama?" What a strange look.
The little fat man lowered his head guiltily.
But Shujia smiled: "It's just right, it's time for Er Niang to let me relax, and I have to go back and rest," she said in a dissatisfied tone, "Let's go in and have a look together. There is something I have to do first. It's done, our third elder brother is making a joke today."
"Why?" He came up to support his wife's arm, let his son hold his clothes, and the three of them walked in together, not forgetting to ask, "Be careful where you step, there is a threshold."
"Ask him." He glanced at the little fat man, and the little fat man lowered his head. "He has been wronged today. He actually said 'Emiang still loves me', why don't I love you anymore? Little heartless."
When he got to the inside while talking, Yinreng looked into the car, his face became serious: "What's wrong with Si elder brother's face?"
The little fat man thought, could it be that I poked it just now?I really want to cry, but I hold back, no, he is a man now, he has to hold on.
Shujia wanted to bend down to hug him, but Yuniu hurriedly supported her, and then exchanged winks with Fang, who came up to hug Hongdan up.Only then did Shujia explain in a long and short way: "Hongdan wanted to give a lecture to his younger brother, so he told him to get up. His younger brother was asleep, so he ignored him, and even pulled him in the face. I glared at him, and he said I only love his younger brother, and I don't love him anymore." I stretched out my hand to pinch the little fat man's face, "How can you think so."
Yinfeng laughed, touched the top of Hongdan's head, and stroked it lightly: "You, you, relax a little bit, you are the son of Ama Erniang, how can you not love you? They all hurt the same!" The fat man was a little embarrassed and moved: "Ama~" He even acted coquettishly.Yinfeng took him and hugged him: "It's sinking again."
"Er Niang also said that I was sinking. I'm not a pig. He's more like it. He's still sleeping." The kid looked down at his younger brother, and he had deeply inherited the family's vindictive nature.Struggling to go down again, Yinreng took advantage of the opportunity to lower the little fat man, and saw him lying on the side of Youche, reaching out to touch Erpang's face: "Huh, it doesn't hurt anymore, brother didn't do it on purpose, does it hurt? I will treat you from now on." it is good."
Shujia said: "It's all right now, you, Ama, just said a word, and you turned around, but it's why you have been struggling with me for so long."
Yinfeng dragged the little fat man's waist with one hand, and was about to reach out with the other hand to touch the little fat man together: "That's right, my son kisses me! Are you envious? If you are envious, I will have a daughter and kiss you."
Shujia spat at him lightly: "I'm talking nonsense again in front of my son."
Yinfeng made a heck and hey, and formed a rogue father-son duo with Hongdan, continuing to harass the second fat kid.
Er is chubby and feels itchy on his face. Has the annoying mosquito come again?Why don't you hum instead of scratching?Another slap!Startled, Yinreng lifted Xiaopang up, lay down past the sneak attack, and stretched out his hand to hold Erpang's murderous paw.
"Good boy! Slow down, didn't even brother and Ama smoke all the time?"
The little fat man was taken aback. He almost cried out in fright. He didn’t have time to reflect his emotions. He just heard this sentence. It’s over. Are you taking revenge?Clamped by a strong arm, there is no danger of falling to the ground, but... it is very uncomfortable!
Shujia stepped forward to pick up the little fat man, and the people in the room were startled. They moved much faster than the mothers, and quickly picked up the little fat man and put them on the ground.
A family of three, almost all of them were sweating and smiling at each other.The second fat man who caused the accident, continue zzzzz~zhong.
The matter is not over yet, and Shujia has to give her son follow-up education.The experience and psychology of children in their childhood will directly affect their development in adulthood.
You can't ignore the little fat man's basic necessities of life, get along with him more and talk to him more.There are many examples among them: "Look at your elder brother and second brother, isn't it the same? Your younger brother lives with Er Niang now, and you also lay here when you were so young..."
The little fat man finally understands, it's not that his grandma and others don't love him anymore, nor do they love his little brother more, but it's because he's grown up and his requirements are different.Look at his elder brother and second brother, who have already gone to the study, and he is still being enlightened by his parents.When I am old, I will also go to the study.When he was a child, he was a little bit more horizontal than his younger brother, and he used to smoke Ama who harassed him.He also lived with Er Niang when he was a child, and the younger brother would have his own room when he was older.
Yinfeng took this as a joke: "Ah, ah, my son is jealous of his brother."
The young mother breathed a sigh of relief.
After having more sons, how to deal with the relationship between sons and make them develop harmoniously is a big question.The mental health of children is also important.
Children are not static, you can not control every process of his growth, especially psychological.He is born as an independent individual and will be affected by various factors, so he must pay attention to the changes of the child at will.You can't be careless and use one method all the time, that is actually a kind of laziness and indifference.
The princess summed it up like this.
Damn it!It's not easy being someone's mother!So, mothers are great.Hey, my mother-in-law is also getting older, so prepare a cane for her tomorrow?Well, it's too eye-catching in the palace, so let the two maids help her... Let her take a good rest after confinement.
The crown princess is out of confinement, which means that the second elder brother of Yuqing Palace is full moon, and the weather has also entered October.The second cut child's full moon wine was arranged according to his brother's example.The night before, Yinfeng poked the sleeping fat face of his youngest son, and said to Shujia regretfully: "Unfortunately, Khan Ama missed this time again. Fortunately, Khan Ama must have Go back, the old man will definitely come to the Hundred Days Banquet."
Shujia said: "The whole family lives in the same place, and they don't come twice this time. It's the same if Khan Ama can catch up with the Hundred Days Banquet." They can't get there already, so why bother talking about it? "However, the son's name"
"I have already asked Khan Ama for instructions. Khan Ama wants to give him a name in a hundred days after he comes back."
"They have handed over the list, let's count it up again to see if anyone has been missed." Shujia pointed to the list on the table.
The Hundred Days Banquet did not have a very large scope. Although it was held according to Hongdan's example, the importance of the two brothers was still slightly different.Most of the people present were the female family members of the palace, and there were also people from the clan who stayed behind among the ministers, so they could be regarded as their relatives.Because of illness, Prince Yu Fuquan and Prince Gong Changning failed because of favor, they were both in Beijing, and they came here together at this time.
Among the women's relatives, some of the concubines went with them, such as Concubine Yi, whose family is in Shengjing, was also taken this time.According to Yinreng's words, Kangxi returned to Shengjing and still lived in Yifei's mother's house, this is the second time.
Those who stayed in Beijing, such as Concubine Tong, Concubine De, Concubine Hui, Concubine Rong, etc., said they would come, so Zhu Fujin would certainly come.
Yinfeng looked at it for a while, and didn't feel that there was anything missing: "Let's do it like this."
"Okay. This time their courtesy is not light."
Before the person arrives, the gift comes first, and the gifts are all generous and well-behaved gifts.The heavy gold locks are full of weight, yellow and bright bracelets, anklets, and all kinds of gold and silver lockets.These are all based on the first house, and under the gift of the main seat are the things of the nobles and other people who live with the dependents, and these will be second-class.
After reading it, Shujia asked Zhao Guoshi and Qing Jin to put the items in storage against the list.Put valuables in one place and save them as his son's small treasury.
The sisters-in-law are not light on their moves, each family has children, even if it is for the sake of reciprocity and good looks, they are quick to act.The courtiers and clan below all gave presents, including Ruyi and other things, among which a red sandalwood Ruyi gifted by the Yaerjiang'a couple was exquisitely carved, inlaid with three pieces of beautiful jade, shining brightly.
Among the gifts from the Shi family, there were a few needles and threads.As aunts, both the Wendu family and the Jueluo family offered needlework.
To Shujia's surprise, Yinfeng is now very concerned about these small things, and commented on the people on the list: "Yarjiang is a sensible person, you treat him well, and he treats you well... "Tsk tsk, younger brother Yaerjiang promised to the elder brother of the prince that he will be able to insert people into Yinti's palace.
Doing the same thing for the second time will inevitably lose the fresh excitement of the first time, and it is the same this time.When the concubines came back this time, their hearts were not as excited as in previous years.I have seen the children in the same way, and praised them once.After taking their seats, Zhu Fujin also arrived.
During Sanfujin's confinement earlier, the Crown Princess gave her a generous gift, and she returned it generously.At this time, they met each other, and they greeted each other's son: "It looks fatter than the one in our family."
"I don't believe that your child will be born badly. I can walk around from now on. I must see it tomorrow."
At the full moon banquet, the women talked about the children's scriptures, and the eight blessings sitting in the middle were extremely difficult.Within a year, they are all called newlyweds, and it's still early for the eight blessings.However, in the royal family, the situation has changed again.Not only the people who watched were anxious, but even themselves became anxious.
Ba Fujin was so anxious for something, and he still had a bright smile on his face: "Oh, you are so beautiful, she looks like the second sister-in-law."
San Fujin said: "My son looks like Er Niang, that's a lucky appearance."
"I've heard that saying too..."
twitter.No one saw Ba Fujin's depression.
The full moon banquet didn't last long, the guests dispersed, and the chief eunuch came out to direct people to pack things.It's time for Sirut to go home too.Shujia brought her a few big bags back, ranging from medicinal materials to forging materials.I really feel that it is not easy for Sirut. All mothers in the world worry about it, and mothers with more than two children have to work harder.
Sirut was really reluctant to part with her, and she had to tell her daughter before leaving: "Sit still and don't get angry easily. You don't need to move anymore when you are at this level. To the elder brother and the second elder brother It's better, especially to take care of our third elder brother... You don't need to think about it at home, remember to remember."
(End of this chapter)