Chapter 366
Chapter 366
Chapter 366
Chapter 196 (2)
Shujia threw the tureen back again and made a crisp sound: "Again, your family is as warm as mine?"
Shuyi whispered: "It's better to be at home."
"You have memorized what I said next, and there is no time to tell me a second time, understand?"
Shuyi didn't know what to do, she still nodded obediently.
"What the nuns and aunts taught you in the past doesn't count. What I'm talking about now is your first lesson," Shujia said solemnly, "Your identity is a car, and knowledge and rules are a horse. Driver."
It was refreshing for Shuyi to hear this metaphor, so she remembered it seriously.
Shujia was very satisfied with her attitude: "No matter how light and strong the car is, if you don't put the horse in front of the car, you still can't run. No matter how good the car is, no matter how fast the horse is, if no one drives you, you might get into that hole." Even if there are cars, horses, and people, you know the story of opposites, right?"
Shuyi has already heard the three-point smell, and nodded vigorously, Shujia continued: "The important thing is the direction and the road, understand? It can reach the doubtful point. That’s why there is a saying that ‘ten horses drive ten horses, the merit lies in giving up’. Now that you have a car and a horse, you can only run when you know where to go.”
Shuyi stopped listening, and asked: "Then where is my direction? Please teach me, sister."
Shujia said: "A's honey, another's arsenic. What I said may not be what you want to go. What I can do now is to point you to a few paths that must not be taken. The rest depends on your understanding." gone."
Shuyi's head nodded faster, Shujia stretched out her hand to support her head, Shuyi dodged reflexively, and then stopped.Shujia touched her younger sister's face. Little Lolita's face was delicate and smooth, covered with a thin layer of powder and light makeup, it looked even more beautiful.
"You are actually still young," Shujia sighed, "Have you ever dreamed before the Grand Challenge? Marrying such a person and marrying such a person, in the end..."
Shuyi blinked, totally not understanding what Shujia was lamenting.Fortunately, Shujia quickly came to her senses: "This direction is the truth and the goal. If you want me to say it is going straight and doing things in accordance with the rules."
Shuyi answered yes, and said in her heart, what she said earlier was quite good, but this sentence is a bit... a bit of a joke?
Shujia said slowly: "There are two hurdles on your road," she pointed her right index finger, "You have two mothers-in-law, do you know? King Yu was born with a concubine, and both his biological mother and his aunt are present. How can we deal with these two obstacles?" A mother-in-law, you can judge by yourself. I don’t have a mother-in-law above me, so I can’t teach you much, you can go home and ask my mother-in-law, sister-in-law and sister at home.”
This is an important point, Shuyi put aside the phrase "go straight", and quickly remembered this point in her heart.This is not too difficult for her, she was originally a concubine, and she also has a biological mother and a aunt, so if she changes her form, she is confident that at least she will not be singled out for serious problems.
"What about the other one?" The eager eyes blinked.
But Shujia withdrew her hand, fisted her hands, closed her eyes, and couldn't bear to say: "You are the stepmother," she finally opened her eyes, staring at Shuyi's instantly stiff face, "Not only is she a stepwife , or stepmother."
Shuyi's face was completely hardened.
Shujia said softly to her: "I have met King Yu Xianfu Jin too, she is a nice person, she left you three sons, what are you going to do to them?"
"I... just treat them according to the rules."
Shujia sneered and said, "Do you think it's easy to follow the rules? For the same thing, ask two people to do it according to the rules. One can be praised by others, and the other can be scolded by others. Believe it or not." ?There are two kinds of daughters-in-law in this world, one is a cow and a horse all day long and is not liked by her mother-in-law and her husband, and the other is so good that everyone loves her. It must be done differently. Even if the same sentence is spoken, the tone of voice is different."
Shuyi was terrified, she stood up with solemn hands: "I would like to accept the training."
"What rules do you want to deal with them? In this palace, as soon as you enter the gate, you will meet many concubines who have concubine sons. They are easy to take care of. The sons born to your ex-wife are different from concubine sons. You have to be clear about them. Remember that. One: Be nice to them. If you really don’t know how to treat them, I’ll give you a way.”
Shuyi couldn't help getting closer.
"Look at the nephews and nieces at home, treat them the same way, look at Hongdan and Hongtong here, treat them the same way. As long as you do this," Shujia gritted her teeth, "and me. "
Shuyi wanted to cry at first, but she held back her tears.When I was first married, I was pleasantly surprised. I just thought about the benefits, but the problem came up later: who the fuck wants to marry a second marriage!She's still a second-marriage with an oil bottle!In the future, I have a son, although he is a legitimate son, but he can't inherit the title. Generally, there is only one Fuguo Duke, and the lower Fuguo General and Zhenguo General are all possible.If you want a higher title, it depends on whether the emperor is willing to give grace or the child has to work hard to earn a higher title.Really wronged.
Thinking of having the princess concubine as the backstage, I feel that the future is not so bleak.
Shuyi's knees softened: "Sister help me."
Shujia stroked her hair: "Get up, let's talk slowly, I'm helping you. What I said is very good, and you have to do it well."
Shuyi tried to shed tears: "I will listen to my sister."
"King Yu is not a difficult person to get along with, he is a bit dull..." Shujia didn't know much about Baotai, and many things were dictated by Yinfeng, "This is what the prince said, I guess it's all about it You have to pay attention to how he looks in court and what he looks like at home."
Shuyi nodded: "Then... what kind of person is Xian Fujin?"
Shujia had seen this person before, and she made a sincere comment: "An ordinary person. He can manage housework without being ostentatious, and his temper is not bad." In a word, she is a standard Qing Dynasty lady.
Shuyi asked about the situation of Prince Yu's Mansion: "There are some things that I'm afraid I can't find out from outside. Even if there are rumors, they are not credible. Please tell me more, sister."
It's good to have a girl who saves trouble at home, Shujia sighed, a child with winks is loved, she can organize some internal materials and give her to study.
"Why do you think I told you so much?" Shujia got up, and Shuyi followed suit.
Shujia took out a booklet from the table and handed it to her: "These are just horses, take a look. The most important thing is to choose a flat road, so as not to be bumped."
Shuyi solemnly said: "I understand, show filial piety to your superiors, kindness to your subordinates, and courtesy to your husband."
Shujia said: "I knew you were a spiritual person, so I would like to tell you one more thing... the horses are good and the roads are smooth. If the furnishings in the carriage are good, it will be comfortable when you rest your feet. Don't make it difficult. It looked brilliant outside, but it was cold and cold inside, so I carefully icy myself when resting my feet.”
Shuyi knelt down and kowtowed three times: "Thank you sister for teaching me."
Shujia pulled her up: "You are my younger sister. I will tell you what I know. It's my duty. How can I be thankful?" Pushing a lock of Shuyi's hair behind her ear, "It's hard to do that. is you."
Shuyi said: "This is also my blessing, how many people can't ask for it."
Shujia asked Shuyi to put away the brochure: "It's just some human relations, just read it yourself."
Shuyi understood, and put the pamphlet away.
After a few more gossips, Shujia let Shuyi go: "It's getting late, I'm afraid the family is in a hurry, so you should go back earlier, in the future, I'm afraid that when you and I meet, you will be more respectful than other people at home." There are many of them."
After Shuyi left, Zishang quietly came over and squeezed Shujia's shoulders: "Master, just teach the third girl this principle, can she do it? She should be with you for a while like the fourth girl." After seeing a lot of Lijing, Zishang made an assessment and felt that the third girl's quality is not bad, but is the situation she is facing too difficult?
"She is a caring person. I have said too much. If she is misleading and thinking about things she shouldn't think about, it will be the opposite. The fourth girl is different from her. She is a bit rigid. She is about to be given Carve a flower on her board to make it lively."
There are many people in this world who are clever but are mistaken by their cleverness. The more they do, the more mistakes they make.
The day when the show girls leave the palace happens to be a holiday, and it is also convenient for the men of each family to pick them up and go home.The pick-up job fell on Guanyinbao, his father and elder brother were a bit aggressive when traveling, so he had to let a low-ranking person like him show his face.
The family had known the news for a long time, and Guanyinbao only asked, "Is there something wrong?" Seeing that Shuyi shook her head, she asked Shuyi to get in the car: "Then we'll talk about it when we get back."
Back at Shi's house, Shuyi received a grand welcome.Entering Sirut's main house, Shi Wenbing was also there, several brothers and sisters-in-law stood aside, and Shuyi's biological mother stood behind Sirut, with a look of expectation on her face.
Sirut first asked Shuyi: "How are you doing in the palace? Are you used to living in it? You're not too skinny."
Shi Wenbing wanted to hear from Shuyi to confirm the result, but seeing Sirut's nagging, he could only hold back listening.The one who asked the question was Shuxian who had gone back to her natal home to see her sister: "Third sister, how are you doing?"
Shuyi nodded with a strange expression?
"Is it Yu Wang Fujin?"
Nod again.
Others can do it, but Shuyi's biological mother almost wept with joy standing behind Sirut.
In a few days, before Kangxi's departure, the official letter of appointment came down, and Shuyi was confirmed as King Yu Jifujin.It was Shi Wenbing who came forward to deal with the matter, while Shuyi stayed in her yard, and the servants of the family came to kowtow to her to congratulate her.Shuyi must have followed the rules, and she didn't dare to put on airs to Sirut and Shi Wenbing: "Second sister refers to being a princess, she treats her parents politely, let alone me?"
The Shi family has to receive visiting relatives and friends from all walks of life, so it is quite busy.No matter how busy you are, it's not like when you were married to a princess, but you don't panic when you deal with it.
Shuyi was accused of getting married, and she seldom went out. She read the secret book given by Shujia in the house, and did all kinds of embroidery work, preparing for the odds and ends that will be used after marriage.Sirut also often comes to teach Shuyi before marriage. One of the important topics is what to do after the stepwife is married.
Shuyi said: "Before going home, my second sister taught me some things."
Sirut was relieved to go to other tasks.
The concubine who taught her younger sister on behalf of her mother was also very busy. The last time Kangxi wanted to take their family to show off on the grassland, the concubine turned out to be pregnant, so she had to give up. This time, she had to go.She had to pack her luggage, and before she left, she had to pay attention to the training of the new maid again.
These court ladies, according to the observations of several Eastern Palace seniors, are not six as Shujia thought, but only four who are suitable to be trained as the arms of the princess.
The Xiuniu were selected by Kangxi, and there was only one standard: no restraint, no hindrance.The so-called "unrestricted and unobstructed" does not mean the severance of the six relatives, but means that the family has no involvement with all parties, so as not to cause trouble in the East Palace.Only in this way can he become a confidant if he is supplemented with the imperial concubine's imperial way.
Kangxi can use state resources to investigate, but Shujia has no such ability, and can only select people based on local prescriptions, and the result is naturally not as expected.
"Let's teach together first. When I come back, I want to see their sons." Shujia quickly recovered. If it doesn't work this year, there will be next year.Li Jia and Li Jia entered the palace a few years earlier than Shujia, and the maids around them will expire next year, can the people who come out here also be separated.Then use these vacancies to exchange for the quota for next year's selection.
(End of this chapter)
Chapter 196 (2)
Shujia threw the tureen back again and made a crisp sound: "Again, your family is as warm as mine?"
Shuyi whispered: "It's better to be at home."
"You have memorized what I said next, and there is no time to tell me a second time, understand?"
Shuyi didn't know what to do, she still nodded obediently.
"What the nuns and aunts taught you in the past doesn't count. What I'm talking about now is your first lesson," Shujia said solemnly, "Your identity is a car, and knowledge and rules are a horse. Driver."
It was refreshing for Shuyi to hear this metaphor, so she remembered it seriously.
Shujia was very satisfied with her attitude: "No matter how light and strong the car is, if you don't put the horse in front of the car, you still can't run. No matter how good the car is, no matter how fast the horse is, if no one drives you, you might get into that hole." Even if there are cars, horses, and people, you know the story of opposites, right?"
Shuyi has already heard the three-point smell, and nodded vigorously, Shujia continued: "The important thing is the direction and the road, understand? It can reach the doubtful point. That’s why there is a saying that ‘ten horses drive ten horses, the merit lies in giving up’. Now that you have a car and a horse, you can only run when you know where to go.”
Shuyi stopped listening, and asked: "Then where is my direction? Please teach me, sister."
Shujia said: "A's honey, another's arsenic. What I said may not be what you want to go. What I can do now is to point you to a few paths that must not be taken. The rest depends on your understanding." gone."
Shuyi's head nodded faster, Shujia stretched out her hand to support her head, Shuyi dodged reflexively, and then stopped.Shujia touched her younger sister's face. Little Lolita's face was delicate and smooth, covered with a thin layer of powder and light makeup, it looked even more beautiful.
"You are actually still young," Shujia sighed, "Have you ever dreamed before the Grand Challenge? Marrying such a person and marrying such a person, in the end..."
Shuyi blinked, totally not understanding what Shujia was lamenting.Fortunately, Shujia quickly came to her senses: "This direction is the truth and the goal. If you want me to say it is going straight and doing things in accordance with the rules."
Shuyi answered yes, and said in her heart, what she said earlier was quite good, but this sentence is a bit... a bit of a joke?
Shujia said slowly: "There are two hurdles on your road," she pointed her right index finger, "You have two mothers-in-law, do you know? King Yu was born with a concubine, and both his biological mother and his aunt are present. How can we deal with these two obstacles?" A mother-in-law, you can judge by yourself. I don’t have a mother-in-law above me, so I can’t teach you much, you can go home and ask my mother-in-law, sister-in-law and sister at home.”
This is an important point, Shuyi put aside the phrase "go straight", and quickly remembered this point in her heart.This is not too difficult for her, she was originally a concubine, and she also has a biological mother and a aunt, so if she changes her form, she is confident that at least she will not be singled out for serious problems.
"What about the other one?" The eager eyes blinked.
But Shujia withdrew her hand, fisted her hands, closed her eyes, and couldn't bear to say: "You are the stepmother," she finally opened her eyes, staring at Shuyi's instantly stiff face, "Not only is she a stepwife , or stepmother."
Shuyi's face was completely hardened.
Shujia said softly to her: "I have met King Yu Xianfu Jin too, she is a nice person, she left you three sons, what are you going to do to them?"
"I... just treat them according to the rules."
Shujia sneered and said, "Do you think it's easy to follow the rules? For the same thing, ask two people to do it according to the rules. One can be praised by others, and the other can be scolded by others. Believe it or not." ?There are two kinds of daughters-in-law in this world, one is a cow and a horse all day long and is not liked by her mother-in-law and her husband, and the other is so good that everyone loves her. It must be done differently. Even if the same sentence is spoken, the tone of voice is different."
Shuyi was terrified, she stood up with solemn hands: "I would like to accept the training."
"What rules do you want to deal with them? In this palace, as soon as you enter the gate, you will meet many concubines who have concubine sons. They are easy to take care of. The sons born to your ex-wife are different from concubine sons. You have to be clear about them. Remember that. One: Be nice to them. If you really don’t know how to treat them, I’ll give you a way.”
Shuyi couldn't help getting closer.
"Look at the nephews and nieces at home, treat them the same way, look at Hongdan and Hongtong here, treat them the same way. As long as you do this," Shujia gritted her teeth, "and me. "
Shuyi wanted to cry at first, but she held back her tears.When I was first married, I was pleasantly surprised. I just thought about the benefits, but the problem came up later: who the fuck wants to marry a second marriage!She's still a second-marriage with an oil bottle!In the future, I have a son, although he is a legitimate son, but he can't inherit the title. Generally, there is only one Fuguo Duke, and the lower Fuguo General and Zhenguo General are all possible.If you want a higher title, it depends on whether the emperor is willing to give grace or the child has to work hard to earn a higher title.Really wronged.
Thinking of having the princess concubine as the backstage, I feel that the future is not so bleak.
Shuyi's knees softened: "Sister help me."
Shujia stroked her hair: "Get up, let's talk slowly, I'm helping you. What I said is very good, and you have to do it well."
Shuyi tried to shed tears: "I will listen to my sister."
"King Yu is not a difficult person to get along with, he is a bit dull..." Shujia didn't know much about Baotai, and many things were dictated by Yinfeng, "This is what the prince said, I guess it's all about it You have to pay attention to how he looks in court and what he looks like at home."
Shuyi nodded: "Then... what kind of person is Xian Fujin?"
Shujia had seen this person before, and she made a sincere comment: "An ordinary person. He can manage housework without being ostentatious, and his temper is not bad." In a word, she is a standard Qing Dynasty lady.
Shuyi asked about the situation of Prince Yu's Mansion: "There are some things that I'm afraid I can't find out from outside. Even if there are rumors, they are not credible. Please tell me more, sister."
It's good to have a girl who saves trouble at home, Shujia sighed, a child with winks is loved, she can organize some internal materials and give her to study.
"Why do you think I told you so much?" Shujia got up, and Shuyi followed suit.
Shujia took out a booklet from the table and handed it to her: "These are just horses, take a look. The most important thing is to choose a flat road, so as not to be bumped."
Shuyi solemnly said: "I understand, show filial piety to your superiors, kindness to your subordinates, and courtesy to your husband."
Shujia said: "I knew you were a spiritual person, so I would like to tell you one more thing... the horses are good and the roads are smooth. If the furnishings in the carriage are good, it will be comfortable when you rest your feet. Don't make it difficult. It looked brilliant outside, but it was cold and cold inside, so I carefully icy myself when resting my feet.”
Shuyi knelt down and kowtowed three times: "Thank you sister for teaching me."
Shujia pulled her up: "You are my younger sister. I will tell you what I know. It's my duty. How can I be thankful?" Pushing a lock of Shuyi's hair behind her ear, "It's hard to do that. is you."
Shuyi said: "This is also my blessing, how many people can't ask for it."
Shujia asked Shuyi to put away the brochure: "It's just some human relations, just read it yourself."
Shuyi understood, and put the pamphlet away.
After a few more gossips, Shujia let Shuyi go: "It's getting late, I'm afraid the family is in a hurry, so you should go back earlier, in the future, I'm afraid that when you and I meet, you will be more respectful than other people at home." There are many of them."
After Shuyi left, Zishang quietly came over and squeezed Shujia's shoulders: "Master, just teach the third girl this principle, can she do it? She should be with you for a while like the fourth girl." After seeing a lot of Lijing, Zishang made an assessment and felt that the third girl's quality is not bad, but is the situation she is facing too difficult?
"She is a caring person. I have said too much. If she is misleading and thinking about things she shouldn't think about, it will be the opposite. The fourth girl is different from her. She is a bit rigid. She is about to be given Carve a flower on her board to make it lively."
There are many people in this world who are clever but are mistaken by their cleverness. The more they do, the more mistakes they make.
The day when the show girls leave the palace happens to be a holiday, and it is also convenient for the men of each family to pick them up and go home.The pick-up job fell on Guanyinbao, his father and elder brother were a bit aggressive when traveling, so he had to let a low-ranking person like him show his face.
The family had known the news for a long time, and Guanyinbao only asked, "Is there something wrong?" Seeing that Shuyi shook her head, she asked Shuyi to get in the car: "Then we'll talk about it when we get back."
Back at Shi's house, Shuyi received a grand welcome.Entering Sirut's main house, Shi Wenbing was also there, several brothers and sisters-in-law stood aside, and Shuyi's biological mother stood behind Sirut, with a look of expectation on her face.
Sirut first asked Shuyi: "How are you doing in the palace? Are you used to living in it? You're not too skinny."
Shi Wenbing wanted to hear from Shuyi to confirm the result, but seeing Sirut's nagging, he could only hold back listening.The one who asked the question was Shuxian who had gone back to her natal home to see her sister: "Third sister, how are you doing?"
Shuyi nodded with a strange expression?
"Is it Yu Wang Fujin?"
Nod again.
Others can do it, but Shuyi's biological mother almost wept with joy standing behind Sirut.
In a few days, before Kangxi's departure, the official letter of appointment came down, and Shuyi was confirmed as King Yu Jifujin.It was Shi Wenbing who came forward to deal with the matter, while Shuyi stayed in her yard, and the servants of the family came to kowtow to her to congratulate her.Shuyi must have followed the rules, and she didn't dare to put on airs to Sirut and Shi Wenbing: "Second sister refers to being a princess, she treats her parents politely, let alone me?"
The Shi family has to receive visiting relatives and friends from all walks of life, so it is quite busy.No matter how busy you are, it's not like when you were married to a princess, but you don't panic when you deal with it.
Shuyi was accused of getting married, and she seldom went out. She read the secret book given by Shujia in the house, and did all kinds of embroidery work, preparing for the odds and ends that will be used after marriage.Sirut also often comes to teach Shuyi before marriage. One of the important topics is what to do after the stepwife is married.
Shuyi said: "Before going home, my second sister taught me some things."
Sirut was relieved to go to other tasks.
The concubine who taught her younger sister on behalf of her mother was also very busy. The last time Kangxi wanted to take their family to show off on the grassland, the concubine turned out to be pregnant, so she had to give up. This time, she had to go.She had to pack her luggage, and before she left, she had to pay attention to the training of the new maid again.
These court ladies, according to the observations of several Eastern Palace seniors, are not six as Shujia thought, but only four who are suitable to be trained as the arms of the princess.
The Xiuniu were selected by Kangxi, and there was only one standard: no restraint, no hindrance.The so-called "unrestricted and unobstructed" does not mean the severance of the six relatives, but means that the family has no involvement with all parties, so as not to cause trouble in the East Palace.Only in this way can he become a confidant if he is supplemented with the imperial concubine's imperial way.
Kangxi can use state resources to investigate, but Shujia has no such ability, and can only select people based on local prescriptions, and the result is naturally not as expected.
"Let's teach together first. When I come back, I want to see their sons." Shujia quickly recovered. If it doesn't work this year, there will be next year.Li Jia and Li Jia entered the palace a few years earlier than Shujia, and the maids around them will expire next year, can the people who come out here also be separated.Then use these vacancies to exchange for the quota for next year's selection.
(End of this chapter)